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Connection without comparison requires practice. Our brains are design to rate and rank, compare and compete, so choosing presence over all of that takes focus. There are sensations associated with connection with comparison and without. Learning to recognize these patterns are key to making skillful choices.

Today’s self-guided ajna* practice focuses on the physical sensations around connection without forcing, over-thinking or over-efforting. In this short video, I guide three simple stretches (that happen to be excellent for anyone who is sitting a lot ~ hint: that’s most of us!) with an approach to connecting to the body with presence instead of thinking about how it is supposed to be.

An Approach to Connecting with Presence
• Use 40-60% effort. Pushing to 100% leaves no room for feeling and adjustment. Connection with presence doesn’t force.
• Receive support. Feel the ground. Let yourself soften into whatever is holding you up (whether its a chair, the floor, the earth…or a person).
• Respond to what’s happening. Feel the subtleties of what is happening as you connect. Notice the micro-shifts and respond. What’s really needed?
This approach is a loop so keep going back to that less-than-100% effort, receive support and respond from there. You use this approach with any stretch, movement, or activity (physical or not). Find the video here.

As always, please share how you use this and how it feels. Is this new? familiar? odd (what do you mean not give 110%??!)? a relief? Please let us know in the comments below!

*Ajna is a Sanskrit word that means inner-knowing and intuition. Ajna practice is a chance to look inside and be your own teacher.

~~~ Music Credits ~~~
Title song for Dancing Water Daily:
Kate’s Waltz 3:44 Bad Snacks, YouTube Audio Library

Monday, May 18 ~ Nourishing Movement: Connection without Comparison (Courage + Encourage) ~ find it here
Tuesday, May 19 ~ Nourishing Movement: Connection without Comparison (Longing + Belonging) ~ find it here
Wednesday, May 20 ~ Moon River Restorative Yoga: Connection without Comparison (Brace + Embrace)
~ find it here
Thursday, May 21 ~ Dharma Dance Swirl: Connection without Comparison (Trust + Entrust) ~ find it here
Friday, May 22 ~ All Out All You Dance Party: Connection without Comparison ~ find it here
Saturday, May 23 ~ Ajna (Self-Guided) Practice: An Approach to Connection without Comparison ~ find it here
Sunday, May 24 ~ Moon River Restorative Yoga: Connection without Comparison (Connect with Presence)

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