In February, meditation teacher and author, Sharon Salzberg sponsors a 28-Day Meditation Challenge. Everybody is invited to commit to meditating every day for the month and join the mindfulness community. As part of the challenge, I’ll be blogging throughout the month (along with other meditator/bloggers) about the experience. You can find the posts on Sharon’s site and I’ll share mine on Focus Pocus.
28-Day Meditation Challenge ~ Day 22
Sunday, February 22, 2015
All week, it has been crazy cold in Charlottesville. We rarely get temperatures in the teens here but for many days last week it was in the single digits. Yesterday, it snowed stunningly and steadily all day long. The predicted few inches stacked up to nearly a foot. As it got dark last night, the thick white blanket was frosted over with a coating of freezing rain and sleet.
This morning I ventured out to see the state of things and to determine whether the noon yoga class was in the realm of possibility. All around me, everything was melting. I could see it dripping off the trees and the eves of the house. I could hear it falling through the magnolia tree and trickling down the driveway. Everywhere, everything was melting.
Melting is the sensation of metta. Lovingkindness meditation melts the frozen places in me that want everyone to think, act, and live like I do. Metta softens the hard, irritated parts of me that push away others’ messy habits and feelings. It melts my tendency to see strangers in two-dimensions and reminds me that everybody – everybody — just wants to be happy and free from suffering. Metta chips away at the crystallized part of me that sees some people as good and others as bad. It thaws the crunchy delusion that we are separate and disconnected from each other.
But most of all, metta softens my own heart toward myself. Metta warms the icy places of harshness and self-criticism. Lovingkindness reminds me of my own humanness and that I, too, am worthy of care and compassion.