Comparing myself to others goes nowhere fast. It’s “the thief of joy.” Comparison encourages me to knock myself down or make myself superior. All competition is comparison and yet our uniqueness makes it totally meaningless.
Contrast is a celebration of varied awesomeness. Much more fun to admire the other and your own bad self. Proudly say, “Oh, I am amazing…only in a completely different way.” Comparison is good, better, best. Joy of Contrast is appreciating all amazingness.